User blog comment:Prince Fluff of Patch Land/Onyx's Pronouns/@comment-31587332-20160511184422

first edit here hey))

coming to terms with your gender identity can be really tough! i've got a few friends who have struggled with figuring out their identity for ages, and as a male who has never questioned their gender and doesn't even remember figuring out that i'm gay, i can't begin to imagine what it feels like. if this character is your gemsona in terms of "me as a gem" then i say go for it! you're projecting yourself onto this character, and if you don't feel comfortable projecting yourself onto a feminine character, then it's totally your decision to change it! in my opinion, throw what others think out the window, because this is your character, your gender, and your'' decision.